There is nothing more important than a first impression - and how a guy acts on a first date pretty much sets that impression in stone (whether it's a great one or a bad one).
Some guys (the great ones) know this fact and make sure they prepare enough for the date to end in the perfect first kiss and land a second date. But the others (the socially awkward, I-don't-know-what-the-fuck-I'm-doing guys) don't necessarily take those measures. And those dates usually end with an awkward, forced kiss on the cheek and an "it was a nice meeting you, but I've got a lot coming up at work".
That is why it is CRUCIAL to be prepared boys! You've got to pay attention to handholding, storytelling, ordering food, drinking wine, how to dress and more!
Because there are certain things that you SHOULD be doing - but you clearly aren't aware of that as much as your lady is.
Watch the video and score some better luck next time!